Friday, December 19, 2008

Cafe Culture in Sydney


Sydney has hands down some of the best coffee in the world. Finding new cafes is part of the fun of life in Sydney.

For anyone who wants good coffee and a bit of flirting with an Italian barrista, check out Bar 7 on Oxford.

The owner even poses for photos, on his skooter in the cafe. Very nice of him.

Monday, December 15, 2008

Priscilla on Stage

Mum and I saw a matinee performance of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert, the musical and really enjoyed it. Incredible costume and set design, complete with a real bus on stage. Great.

Pubs in Sydney

This weekend was quite social, starting with meeting a friend Friday evening at the Paddington Inn on Oxford Street. The front is the bar, with big windows looking out onto the street. The back has been recently redesigned to include an enclosed outdoor room for smokers and tables for those who want to eat. It was a wet, blustery night but the pub was packed.

Saturday, I met up with some friends at the Australia Heritage Hotel in the Rocks. Outdoor seating and great low key atmosphere. They have a lot of micro brew beer on tap like Byron Bay but despite much peer pressure, I opted for glasses of white wine. We ordered several small pizzas which were very tasty. After the rain on Friday, Saturday was a beautiful day and much fun was had by all.

Best tall tale from Saturday pub day - I only lived in the States for 6 weeks and just picked up the accent very quickly.

Monday, December 8, 2008

Australia, the movie, mate - go see it!

For Mum's birthday yesterday, she requested that we go see Australia, the movie. Initially, she had said she wouldn't see it. She is not a fan of "Our Nic," as Australians like to refer to Nicole Kidman. But after hearing from several of her friends that they had taken the plunge and emerged refreshed, off we went.

And what a ride! Academy award winning performances, life changing - maybe not. But it should get an award for cinematography and costumes - beautiful visually. It was all shot on location in Australia. The movie is a sweeping fun epic that depicts parts of Australian culture - humor, adventure and the story of the Aborigine - incredibly well.

The humor and camp is kind of like Australian humor - it kind of pokes fun of itself or "takes the piss" out of itself. And doesn't take itself too seriously. Adventure - Australians of all backgrounds love to travel and take on a challenge. And do so with a grin.

The story of the Aborigine and the Stolen Generation is one worth learning about, for all. Another good movie about this same topic is Rabbit Proof Fence. It is about belonging and not belonging, about acceptance and the importance of our individual story and home.

Also, it is a little known fact that Australia was bombed by the Japanese during World War II in Darwin, just after Pearl Harbor (same day as my mother's birthday).

There was so much hype that it would have been hard for the film to live up to it all. But is a fun cinema going experience and worth seeing on the big screen.

The Hynek girls enjoyed Australia.

Friday, December 5, 2008

International Academy of Film and Television

I am doing some marketing strategy consulting for IAFT and am really enjoying working with the teachers and mentors to promote the talent. Great piece that highlights students and the school. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7X9qGaIDdKY

Moving Day!!!!

I got a flat in Paddington and I am SO excited!

I have already moved most things in, as it were, since I really don't have many things. My mother has lent me furniture that was in storage and it all fits perfectly since it is not the biggest place I have ever seen. I hired really good movers who were really funny.

It is a quick walk to the main street of Paddington, that has great cafes, restaurants, small indie movie theatres, Centennial Park and the library. It is also a very safe area and really close to both the city and the beach.

The flat is closer to friends' places and also three houses down are two sons of my mother's friend, so on the off chance something goes wrong, I can knock, knock, knock on their door. I think I will make them a plate of chocolate chip cookies to start the goodwill.

I also have a tiny view from my balcony of Elizabeth Bay and can see the tops of sailboats and ferries passing by!

Ladies who lunch...continued

Yesterday, one of my mother's closest friends hosted a birthday luncheon for my mother. 10 ladies in all, for champagne, nibbles, a beautiful curry chicken salad, pavlova for dessert, coffee, tea and turkish delight. A day of much laughter. I am so pleased to be here in Sydney to spend days like this with my mum.

Andre Rieu Extravaganza for Thanksgiving Down Under

My mother and I were given tickets to see the opening night performance of Andre Rieu, a sort of Austrian violin-playing, conducting, circus master. It was a spectacle and as they say in Oz, over the top. The set was a full size reproduction of an Austrian castle, complete with two ice-skating rinks, a ballroom, water fountains and a full orchestra. They played classical songs for over three hours. Andre likes applause and requested clapping before and after songs. The venue was homebush, where the Sydney Olympics were held and was the only place big enough for the set. But the accoustics were awful. He does tell a little history before each song and that makes it more interesting - makes classical music more accessible. And he does make it fun. He inspired a lot of the audience to get up and waltz. By the end of the encore, after the 200 bagpipes marched in, the stadium was all signing Waltzing Matilda. Crazy madcap over the top.

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Headlands and the Gap


Close to the south head in Sydney Harbour is a fabulous park and walking trail with spectacular views. Still mastering photos on this blog. Please excuse the mess.

Old School Sydney


My mother's family used to live on O'Sullivan Road. Here are a few shops that still sport the art deco look from the era. Please note the General Store. At the end of the strip, you will find the Chicken Shop.

Country Garden


Going to the country with my Mum

Went to visit our family friends who live in Binalong, in the Southern Tablelands, where Mum lived when she was first married. Binalong is in an area known for merino wool, and hence there are a lot of sheep and green grassy hills to feed them. We visited friends in the area who have reconstructed an old original country home and allow a family of kangaroos to come inside and sit on their sofas. The mother kangaroo is named Possum!

dolphins in port stephens

koalas and me

Port Stephens

My sister took me up the coast to a place called Port Stephens for my birthday. It is right on the water and inland is the famous Hunter Valley with its vineyards. We stopped at an animal park on the way in and were able to see many animals, including koalas. Our second day, we went on a dolphin watching tour that was spectacular.

Birthday Cake


Mum found a fancy cake for my birthday!

Halloween in Oz


My sister and I carved a pumpkin, named as the variety "Halloweens" in the green grocer.

Thursday, November 6, 2008

No on 8

This is so sad that Prop 8 in California passed. Why is it so threatening to have people in a loving relationship make a commitment to one another? More loving, stable, committed relationships in the world would be a blessing and should be an excellent example for us all, including children.

But it is not really about the children, is it? Children are incredibly perceptive and accepting. They would be able to pick up on love. They would be able to pick up on fear too.

It is about the discomfort of the adults. About their discomfort with something they fear. They can't take responsibility for their own fears and insecurities, so they blame some one else.

Having been in a relationship with an incredibly controlling person, I witnessed how the fears and insecurities of one person are turned into the vices of another. I became to blame for almost everything in the relationship. And unfortunately, I accepted that blame for too long.

But there is no fault in loving another human being and wanting to make a life long commitment to that person. There is just beauty.

YAHOOO! When Donkeys fly and land down under...

my words don't really cut it tonight when so many eloquent ones have been said.

like the incredible acceptance speech of our next president. watching it with other americans and some aussies in a sydney pub called the slide lounge with the "democrats abroad" group. the experience and words were truly moving. men next to me were crying. i was crying.

we all feel invigorated and for the first time in a long time feel proud and are uplifted by a true sense of hope.

then we sang the star spangled banner. then they had a red, white and blue elephant shaped pinata. then i walked home, beaming and dancing apparently to the music in my ipod.

i was such a spectacle of happiness that an older woman beamed at me from her porch, got up and started dancing too.

Friday, October 31, 2008

Beautiful to be back in Sydney

This week has been wonderful and every once in a while, I have to pinch myself that I am really in Sydney. My mother picked me up at the airport and what I treat. Travelling for so many years, I got accustomed to taking myself. But after almost 20 hours of travelling, my mother's smiling face greeted me back home. Home is Sydney!

Friday, October 24, 2008

Boracay – Day 3 – Snorkelling and swimming

Laurent and Mattheau met me at D-Mall this morning at 10:00 so we could all go snorkeling together. They had already found a tour and we had to hurry because the boat was waiting for us. I say boat but it is more like an overgrown canoe with a cover, open sides, and huge bamboo poles out to the sides for balance. The crew were Filipino sea men, dark skinned from the sun, tattooed, sturdy balancing on the bamboo poles, and smiling.


Shoving off from the beach proved difficult so Laurent and Mattheau hopped off to help push. Off we set on a gorgeous 6 hour tour around Boracay Island with 5 stops, including a buffet lunch. The first stop was snorkeling and the water again so beautiful but not that many little fishes. We saw a purple star fish – one of the crew brought it to me underwater. Second stop was Crystal Cove – a bit of a bust. An “optional” 150 pesos to go see a cave. I opted not and stayed on the beach, chatting with Carl and his girlfriend June.


Carl and June are Filipino. Carl lives here, in Mindanao, working in Marketing for Unilever and June lives for now in Dubai working as a photographer for an Indian fashion designer. They are a lovely couple, so happy and so glad to be enjoying life and their time together. Carl is also a chef, having studied at a culinary institute and speaks French cooking terms. He was quizzing Laurent on the correct pronunciation of boullaibase, croissant and other French foods. He is a photographer too and became our small band’s de facto photo shoot organizer.



We ventured to lunch at another part of the island, disembarking down the very narrow gang plank into the ocean with a bamboo pole propped for us to hold onto. Little kids lined up around the boat clapping and doing backflips, waiting for a coin to be thrown into the water so they could show their diving prowess and make some money. I sat with Carl, Jane and the Frenchies. Carl explained we were having roasted baby tuna, chicken and pork skewers, stir fried veggies, etc.

Our next stop was Puka Beach. Remote, not developed, pristine and gorgeous. We swam and let the gentle waves lap us around for almost an hour. Our view was the crystal blue ocean and the lush green vegetation, with white sand and a cliff.

Next we stopped to snorkel some more, this time with many little colored fish and vibrant living coral. And then back to Station 3, White Beach, where we said goodbye with a plan to meet up later at Station 1 at Guilly’s Island bar and disco.

I am having a Mango Margarita on the beach for happy hour and sunset and am looking forward to a nibble at the hotel, then out and tomorrow morning a massage at Mandala Spa on the mountain in the jungle.

Boracay – Day 2 – Relaxing and Exploring

Relaxed. Swam in a perfectly warm clear ocean. Napped on the beach. Said no to many women saying “M’am, foot massage, pedicure” on the beach.

Went exploring to D-Mall and Station 2 and 3. D-Mall is just that, a beachside mall with restaurants and shops. I bought my second disposable camera so photos are to follow when I return to Sydney.

At a Filipino buffet, met some young French business students attending HCE doing a study abroad semester in Hong Kong, Laurent and Mattheau. The buffet was 290 pesos, all you can eat, on the beach, of freshly barbequed mussels, oysters, bangus, chicken skewers, rice, curry chicken, beef, fried shrimp. We met up later to have a drink at my hotel and then the infamous Cocomanga’s.

Boracay Sunset

Sunsets at 5:30 and is spectacular. Gentle waves lapping on the White Beach. Silhouetted sailboats coast in the foreground on shimmering dark cobalt blue ripples.

Amber, soft magenta gives rise to pale yellow to be crowned by grey periwinkle blue with pillows and tufts of grey stretched across like a pulled cotton bud. In the far distance, a storm darkens a section, reaching the gray tuft all the way to the water.

Lighting flashes, exposing the islands beyond. Relaxing music emanates from the hotel behind me and a candle lights my little table on the soft sand. Heaven might be like this.

Alex

Alex is my friend Kacy’s driver and he was my tourguide in Cebu. He took me all over the place and imparted much of the information in this blog. He has a wife, 3 daughters and is a devout Catholic who speaks in broken English. He has worked for Kacy for 5 years now and calls her M’am Kacy. He is a lovely person who is simply one of the kindest, most loyal and hard workers I have met in a very long time.

Carbon Markets


These are not for tourists. Squatter residences in the city mark the entry to the wooden and cardboard stalls lining the dirt, muddy roads where little naked children splash in puddles.

No brand knock offs. No other foreigners except me. I was a sight to be seen. But Alex, my friend’s driver, was by my side and gallantly made sure I was safe. Alex explained that the farmers come to the market by jeepnee, the official bus system.

Jeepnees are small jeeps with benches in the back and a roof so short I bumped my head every time I entered. An honor system prevails – when you want to stop, you bang on the roof and pass your money up the bench. A typical jeepnee ride costs 8 pesos. There is no published route system and shorter hauls are done by trike, a motorcycle with a side car.


Farmers come down with all their harvest and stay, sleep at the markets on the street until it is sold. Tomatoes, onions, root vegetables and misshapen bulbous potatoes. Dried fish. Coconut plant and bamboo plants. Lumpia. Bags and bags of rice. Bootleg DVDs upstairs. We did not go to the meat section on Kacy’s advice.



One of Alex’s friends has a car. He goes to the market at 5 am, the busiest time. He waits to be hired by people buying for restaurants. A good haul can be worth 400 pesos for him. Which is almost double the average daily wage, 260 pesos.

Cebu is a third world country and poverty is abundant. Many people in Cebu and Mactan are squatters – they have built shacks and some cement houses on government land. The threat is always there that the government will move them, but the government is corrupt and has not built alternative housing. So, they stay squatting with a busy community where the beauty shop in a squatter residence is open and packed at 10 at night.

The Spanish were here

The main tourist sites in Cebu revolve around a common theme – The Spanish coming and the Spanish going. [This is not Wikipedia nor Encyclopedia Britanica, so historical facts contained herein very well might be wrong. But this is what I picked up along the way.]

Magellan’s cross marks the spot where he claimed Cebu and the Philippines for Spain. A beautiful wooden huge cross is protected by a small pagoda with a fresco ceiling, think Sistine Chapel, smaller, with native Filipinos and Spanish looking priests, rendered by artists of less talent than Michelangelo. Legend tells that the cross grows every year, so that the ceiling must be moved higher and higher.

Next to the cross, stage right, enter the Church where the patron saint of Cebu, el Santo Nino, is enshrined. Magellan gave the Santo Nino to the then Chief, who become King Charles. The church itself is small but beautifully adorned with hand carved pews and doors of native dark wood. The stone of the building is a white, graying stone that might be blocks of old coral. The shrine of the Santo Nino is visible from the Church, but patrons queue up on the outside to give their blessings and offer prayers. Just outside the church for larger masses, a marble plaza stretches, with a dias ending its expansion.


The Spanish protected its Cebuano holdings from Fort San Pedro, featuring views of the Church, the Cross and the ocean. The Regional Museum occupies a portion of the Fort now.

Filipinos said goodbye to the Spanish on Mactan Island, at the site of the Battle of Mactan. Chief Lapu Lapu (actually from Borneo) was invited by the Chief of Cebu to his ally and kick out the Spanish. And that he did. In an epic battle that is re-enacted every year using professional film stars from Manila, Chief Lapu Lapu kick Spanish butt all over the swampy mangroves. Lapu Lapu is so revered, he even has the best fish in the Philippines named after him. It is quite tasty.

BigFoot Studios and the International Academy of Film and Television

I don’t know what I expected but it wasn’t this massive multi-cultural complex complete with ostriches at the front and a Tiki bar in back with a view of the ocean, flanked by two NC-24 sound stages and a three story school and hotel in the middle.

The lobby, decked out with huge flat panel TV screens playing a loop of Fashion TV with models on under water shoots and clips of BigFoot movies, has a café that serves breakfast, lunch and dinner. Students and mentors and film crew rapidly walk through if not eating. Most of the ex-pats, crew and teachers, frequent the FTV café. The canteen outside to the back serves more local cuisine, like lumpia, is way cheaper so it is the spot for locals and students. Cheaper means a bottle of water for 20 pesos, roughly .75 us cents. Outside the canteen is the smoking area, a de facto conference room. And further back, just along the beach, is the Tiki bar, originally built for a movie set and now the happy hour locale of choice. The Tiki bar at night is hopping busy, with this international creative set kicking it back with the kazillion tiny feral cats.

Note, the ocean view is better at high tide. Low tide takes all the water out of the small bay, leaving a muddy morass highlighting the shacks on stilts built in the middle of the bay.

Also note that there is a pool built for underwater shoots.

Also please note that there is another housing complex called Casablanca on the property that serves as a dormitory for the students from over 25 countries and overseas film crews. The most recent term just started this week (there are 5 “intakes” throughout the year) and there are 28 students, representing Pakistan, India, Iran, Uganda, Ireland, the Philippines and Ireland.

And finally, please observe that there are fashion models walking around. They are model “interns” and work for Fashion TV. They wake up at 7 every morning for a workout and “breathing” exercises designed to teach them how to hold their breath for underwater shoots.

Mactan Island, Cebu, Philippines

Under the cover of night, the plane from Manila eased its way to the short runway. Marble greeted me. As it had in Manila. And humidity. And the bakeshop. And smiling Filipinos. And an airport terminal fee. After collecting my bags, I wandered out of the Domestic Terminal in Cebu to confusion and people saying, “Welcome, m’am, luggage? Taxi?” I proudly proclaimed, “No, Bigfoot.” But no Bigfoot driver. So, being the resourceful soul I am, I ventured to chat with the smiling woman at the Information desk. She nodded and smiled. She suggested I try outside. Outside, a flimsy wooden stall was the hub of buzzing activity. People milling around. “Taxi, m’am?” But after surveying the signs for the resort hotels inside, still no sign saying “Anna Hynek” or “Bigfoot.” I returned to the nice smiling woman at Information who had the phone book open to find the number for BigFoot. You see, everyone in Cebu knows about BigFoot Entertainment, the movie studio and film school. Everyone. For the first time in my traveling life, I did not know where I was going. I did not even know if I was staying at Bigfoot. So another nice woman at information lent me her mobile phone so I could call the only number I had…a mobile phone number for my friends. She wouldn’t take nay money for the phone call. My friends told me to take a taxi and to meet them at Bigfoot. I got into a private car with two other nice people with whom I felt safe. I paid 400 pesos, about $8 US, and was delivered safe and sound to BigFoot., where my friends were waiting and pleased to see me, but quite irritated that I had paid so much. The fare should have been 75 pesos, about $1.50.

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

"Fortress Australia"

that was the headline of the sydney morning herald on september 30th. the new york times yesterday stated that the lack of passage by the House of Representatives in the U.S. Congress didn't have a huge impact on world markets.

this after a british bank failed. after a belgium bank failed. after the news of the vote, russia halted trading. brazil halted trading. when russia re-opened after two hours for 19 seconds, it declined 6.9%. brazil opened after a half hour and its Bovespa index had the largest decline in a decade.

and this island shall remain a fortress? indeed.

Monday, September 29, 2008

Andy Goldsworthy


Laurence and Victoria introduced me to an artist named Andy Goldsworthy and lent me a DVD about his work.

He uses nature as his medium and almost always the piece is exhibited in nature. He is very influenced by the surroundings of his home in Scotland and the force and energy of the river.

Often or almost always, the art is intended to mutate as nature exacts its cycle.

A string a leaves set free in a river is bent and curls and dances.

A stone cairn is weathered by rain, snow and sun.

The pieces are incredibly unique and beautiful.

Here is a clip from the video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3TWBSMc47bw

Round for morning tea and dinner

I have been "round for" morning tea and dinner at several different friends' houses. Casual entertaining in the home is the way to go!

My friend Fiona had me "round for" morning tea not too long ago. She made coffee, not tea, per my request. But had turned out ala Martha Stewart a chocolate cake to have with the beverage of choice. We had a lovely time along with her 8 month old Alice. So nice to catch up.

Three of my mother's good friends have had us over for dinner along with their kids, whom I have all known since I was 2.

Have also been over to my friend Laurence and his wife Victoria's place in Clovelly - I drove there all by myself. On the wrong side of the road. In the dark. And I made it there, had a really nice night and got home.

Hilarious conversations, fantastic food and good tips abound being asked "round".

Dive in

Outdoors is the Sydney way of life. Very like California in that sense.

One of best things about Sydney outdoor life are the swimming pools. There is one in almost every suburb. A lot are half salt-water. And some like the famous Icebergs pool in Bondi, is completely saltwater.

I have dipped in now a couple of times and it is utterly refreshing.

To the markets we go

Sydney has a vibrant thriving system of markets, where artisans and farmers sell their wares and produce. And they are fun, with musicians playing, kids running around and adults spending lazy days.

My sister and I went this past weekend to the Glebe markets. Glebe is a suburb just west of the CBD - the Central Business District - or "the city." It is close to the university and the water, and has lovely old Victorian homes and a park where the markets are set up every Saturday.

We stopped at the very first stall, at the belt man. My sister already has a few belts from the belt man. I now have one too. He cuts them for you right there on the spot with his handy tools. My sister got the second great shopping deal by having me around. (The first great deal was when we went sunglass shopping last weekend. Again, because I spent $$, she was offered a discount. She is liking me being around. She even said so.) Because I was buying a belt, he threw in 3 free leather wrist bands. We decided to split the winnings and I now have a red leather wrist band that looks very like something Linda Carter might wear. My belt is a beautiful wide black strip of leather with fine tooling to create a design in light beige.

After the intense selection and negotiation process, we were hungry and got some food - I opted for vegetarian salads of lentil, pasta and greek varieties. My sister got a yummy Turkish sandwich called "gozleme", bread filled with feta cheese, spinach, chilli and meat if you want. We sat on the grass, listening to the band and people watching.

Sauntering after our tummy's were full, we found earrings and plants and clothes and many watch fobs.

And for the final act, my sister purchased a beautiful gold plated chain that is costume jewelry from where, but the States!

American economy and politics as seen from Oz

Scary. Like watching the parent make a huge mistake. And the children must deal with the ripple effect.

The world is so incredibly affected by what happens to America's economy and political system. Or it has been.

There is intense but very quiet speculation that America has now lost its international credibility in its financial strength and expertise. That was something held in high esteem and was viewed as separate from the government. It will be some time if ever that world banks borrow from American banks, invest in American bank issued securities and it may mean that credit will not be as available to American banks from abroad.

The bailout package is seen by most as a white flag, but no one is very optimistic that it will guarantee against a recession. And with the presidential elections coming up quickly, doubt seems to prevail or at least a sense of instability. No one knows what the future will bring and speculators of all sorts love playing on that regardless of the long-term damage.

The New York Times ran an article discussing the collapse of the Swedish banking system in 1992. The government chipped in about 5% of GDP, about the same that the U.S. is allocating, but insisted that 1) banks write down their losses first meaning that shareholders of the banks would be affected first before the government and taxpayers and 2) if they aided a bank, the government became a shareholder. In the end, some banks opted to re-org themselves, like SEP who showed a profit the next year. And only approximately 2% of the GDP was spent. Adding true accountability was the Swedish model.

The U.S. did take on shares of Fannie Mae, Freddie Mac and AIG. Perhaps taking on anymore would be "over the top" as they say in Australia.

But just in, according to an article in NYT on late Sunday U.S. time,

"The [U.S.] Treasury would receive warrants giving it the right to acquire nonvoting common stock or preferred stock in firms benefiting from the bailout. The program would be subject to oversight that includes a bipartisan committee and the Government Accountability Office. The GAO would have an office located within the Treasury Department.

The Treasury plans to hire asset managers to determine the criteria for the purchase of securities and oversee the portfolio once the buying begins. While those details remain murky, the Treasury expects to buy up large chunks of assets at a single time. The asset managers would likely start buying the simplest assets first, such as mortgage-backed securities, and then move on to more complex ones, such as collateralized debt obligations."

It would seem from the outlined plan, that the U.S. Treasury will be left to figure out the details of what assets to purchase, at what price and how to manage those assets.

Thursday, September 25, 2008

The Arts at the Opera House

The first of two really incredible nights at the Opera House with Mum was last Saturday night for the symphony in the Concert Hall at the Opera House. It was a farewell to the conductor who has served for the last 5 years. He is a jolly round Italian, full of life and passion and smiles. The symphony played his varied selections beautifully, beginning with pieces from Beethoven's 7th, interspersed with bits of Verdi and finishing with Ravel's Bolero. Bolero is kind of Mum and my song, having heard it together a few times, most recently at the Hollywood Bowl. At the pinnacle of Bolero, confetti burst in arcs from either side of the stage and green, red and white balloons suspended above the audience were released. The enormous grin on the face of the conductor Gelmetti was in plain sight from our seats behind the orchestra. The encore was superb, with Gelmetti conducting the audience clapping as if they were the percussion.

Last Tuesday night, now professionals, Mum and I returned to the Opera House for none other than an Opera - the Pearlfishers by Bizet. It was simply enchanting. The production design alone was worth it - the ephemeral Buddha on screens, the shadow box adding simple yet astounding depth to the stage and the understated effective costumes were incredible visual cues to a rich story and magnificent voices. At intermission, I ventured out to the balcony and was wowed by the sight of the Harbour Bridge, Kirribilli House, and of course, Sydney Harbour at night.

Back inside, I grinned from ear to ear seeing my Mum and thinking how lucky I am to be with her experiencing these wonderful things together and so pleased to have moved to Sydney.

www.smh.com.au/news/entertainment/arts/passionate-embrace-ends-with-a-bang/2008/09/18/1221331045412.html
www.opera-australia.org.au/scripts/nc.dll?OPRA:PRODUCTION::pc=PC_90090

Friday, September 19, 2008

Bonnox

I have learned of the existence of something called Bovril. It is like Vegemite, but instead of consisting of yeast extract, it has essence of beef but is suitable for vegetarians somehow. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bovril

An apparent nickname is Bonnox. A friend in hospital after having her appendix removed was offered daily by the nurse, "Coffee, Tea or Bonnox?"

reflections

the last few days i have slowed down a bit and jetlag/reality/thoughts have emerged.

i am in sydney, living at home with my mother and sister, who have lived in the same house together for 6 years. they have always lived in the same city, while i have not lived in the same country for 12 years. needless to say, they have a routine.

they created a lovely space for me in the room always dubbed "anna's room" but which also served as the guest room and computer room. a "built-in" closet was constructed in my return's honor in said room. careful selection of pieces of furniture for the little room resulted in a single bed, black leather reclining chair, nightstand with a beautiful white alabaster lamp, a table with a stereo.

space was made in the bathroom as well. i have my own portion of a shelf in the new cabinet, my own drawer and basket underneath the sink.

i have learned from my sister where the extra tissue boxes are kept so i can replace the empty box in the bathroom.

i am learning the system of communication that allows a natural order to flow. the first key to this system are the notes left for each other on the kitchen counter, morning and night. this way everyone knows what is happening for the day.

for a person who has lived in her own apartment, with no roommates for over two years and communicated with her family once a week via phone, this part of the system is emblematic and intriguing. it is a good communication device, direct, familiar and informative. and requires that you know what you are doing in advance.

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

day of culture

yesterday i made full use of public transportation and my legs. welcome relief from sitting in a car for 8 years in los angeles. after getting off at the museum train stop, i walked through lovely Hyde Park which is in the middle of downtown Sydney, or as they call it here, the CBD - Central Business District. Many people in suits have lunch in the park and a lot take their lunch to put on their "joggers" and run.

my first destination was an interesting exhibit at the art gallery of nsw called the "lost buddhas." the exhibit displays 35 buddha statues of 400 found during the construction of a school. they are simply beautiful in their simplicity, grace, expression, fluidity and detail. More info at www.artgallery.nsw.gov.au/exhibitions/current/lost_buddhas.


over to darlinghurst on foot afterwards for a bit to eat at a little deli in victoria street. i had a carrot and apple juice, freshly squeezed and a mixed salads - one of broad beans, another watercress with hard boiled egg, tomato and another of pumpkin. followed of course by the best coffee in the world - the sydney flat white.

off then to mecca....the mac store at george and king street. 3 levels. pristine. so excited.

scooted down to liverpool street to the spanish quarter, had a glass of wine and jamon serrano and a chat in spanish with my waitress. imagine speaking spanish in sydney! we made friends, will go for a coffee and practice our language skills.

and last but not least, thai food with nelson in newtown at Doytao. Green Duck Curry, yum. Oh, and then hazlenut gelato.

and then a warm salt water foot bath and bed!

Monday, September 15, 2008

beginning to have a social life

saturday night had mexican food with my sister and nelson. then off to the most random activity in sydney - the dog races. apparently the insider tips are - pick the dogs starting from the outside gates, the dogs that jump and bark at the rabbit and for short races, ones with big muscles on their hind haunches. my sister won $26 on one race using these tips. i did not. but we all had fun. then to leichardt, little italy, for gelato on the winnings.

old family friend dan collected me sunday morning and off we went for a full day of reconnecting. started by having late breakfast with his mother, sister and her twin 5 year old sons in castlecrag. his mother has always been incredibly kind to me and was lovely to see her. hadn't seen his sister in years - she is a gorgeous person. her twins informed the table that they did not like the american, in no uncertain terms. after i showed them how to open the water bottle, impressions were changing but certainly not b.f.f.s.

then went to see old friend fiona, her husband simon and their little girl, alice, who likes to growl. she is eight months.

we scooted back over the bridge in time for rain and a juice in woolahra and then picked up american friend nelson and does what any good australian does on a sunday afternoon, and went to the pub. The Royal at Five Ways in Paddington. Dan explained Rugby League to Nelson. We then had a slight cricket lesson - basically at the moment, my impression is that there are things called wickets, stumps, over/unders and ducks and games can last for 5 days.

to flat or not

after much internal debate, i have decided to live at home for a while to save money. trepidation abounds after living on my own for some time. very australian to live at home for periods of time. nice of the parents. question the sanity of the children.

but went with an american friend of mine who has also just arrived in sydney to help him find a flat. prices are ridiculously high and twenty-thirty people show up for each "inspection." very competitive. you have to be ready to present photo id, bank statements, letters from God on the spot to secure the position. and sometimes give a deposit.

after a day of looking, friend put in three applications. he is waiting to hear. we have fingers crossed.
sleeping with an electric blanket. woke up at nine a.m. this morning. came downstairs and mum and chatted for a while. it was like she had been saving up. then i went for a walk in the park across the street. it is by a public golf course. the older male golfers joked around with me. funny. then had a bite to eat and off mum and i went on a day of errands. had to find the australian version of a notary - they are evidently called Justices of the Peace. I had to have them witness me signing a Power of Attorney. Lots of false starts including one JP who refused to assist because she didn't want to be "implicated." finally found one at the real estate agent's office where mum bought her townhouse. when asked who sold her the property, she answered "he has been a naughty boy" - he was convicted for raping the office secretary and is currently serving 5 years. needless to say, they much preferred to talk about my power of attorney. then went to find a fedex. they looked over the form for a good ten minutes to make sure i filled it out ok. also have gotten forms to get an aussie driver's license, have enrolled for and got national free healthcare, and have my bank account updated. and my sister put some money on the pre-pay mobile phone for me. came home, watching tv online and my sister turned on the tv and told me to use headphones. she needed to watch deal or no deal.

The arrival

arrived in sydney to a perfectly beautiful day and lunch by the ocean with my mother and sister. had a bit of a longer flight because we hit unforecasted storms in the pacific and had to go out of our way avoiding them, thus depleting our fuel. so we had to land in auckland, new zealand to refuel, delaying us by 4 hours. BUT, i had two open seats next to me so I could lie down and sleep. AND they did not charge me for my extra and very heavy baggage. so all in all, good trip.